Sun’s out, tongues out! Whether you’re licking an ice cream cone or a close friend, May’s warm weather is the only excuse you need to celebrate the coming summer by throwing caution to the spring breeze and chasing adventure. And there’s no better opportunity to set the tone for a fun frisky summer than a nice long Memorial Day weekend. But where to seek out a little fun and sun? Here’s a few suggestions for gay events over Memorial Day Weekend:
1. For Raunchy Fun
International Mr. Leather (IML) – Chicago
Are you ready for the iconic leather and fetish extravaganza? Since 1979, IML has been the ultimate destination for gear lovers and kink enthusiasts. Held annually in Chicago during the last weekend of May, this festival attracts a global crowd with its vibrant atmosphere, dynamic activities, and inclusive spirit.
- Event Highlights
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- The renowned Mr. Leather Competition, where contestants compete for the prestigious title.
- A massive marketplace filled with sexy gear and accessories.
- Workshops, social gatherings, and off-site parties you won’t want to miss.
And if you need a breather between festivities, take some time to explore Chicago’s historic Boystown, catch a Cubs game at Wrigley Field, or soak up the sun by Lake Michigan.
Pro Tip: Don’t skip the unofficial afterparties; they’re where the real magic happens!
2. For Beach Bliss
Pensacola Beach Pride
Sand, sun, and drag queens? Yes, please. Pensacola Beach Pride is Florida’s biggest beach bash, drawing an incredible crowd of over 200,000 LGBTQ+ revelers from across the country. From May 22–26, 2025, you can expect three days packed with music, drag shows, and non-stop dancing under the sun.
- Why You’ll Love It
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- Social vibes galore! People love sharing homemade Jell-O shots, so be sure to bring some.
- Insane energy that makes you feel part of one huge family.
- Prime beach real estate means early risers can plant their rainbow flags before the biggest crowds roll in.
Don’t Miss: The vibrant nightly drag performances and sunrise beach sessions.
3. For the Poolside Crowd
Temptation Sundays – Las Vegas
Prefer your holiday served poolside? Get ready to show off those tiny swimsuits. For over a decade, Temptation Sundays at the Luxor in Las Vegas has been the ultimate pool party destination for the LGBTQ+ community. Memorial Day Weekend draws an especially fabulous crowd, and with cocktails, DJs, and amazing poolside vibes, it’s pure summer magic.
Hot Tip: After a day of splashing in the pool, hit the Strip for a show, or try your luck at the blackjack tables.
4. For Campfire Vibes
Triangle Recreation Camp – Near Seattle
Dreaming of starry skies, great company, and campfire cookouts? Just an hour outside Seattle lies Triangle Recreation Camp, a secluded and welcoming oasis for LGBTQ+ camping enthusiasts. From pitching tents to RV-ready sites, this weekend is all about connecting with both nature and fun new friends.
- Memorial Day Activities
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- Pajama parties under the stars (comfier than they sound, trust us!).
- Late-night dance events surrounded by forest vibes.
- A relaxed BBQ with a side of LGBTQ+ community love.
Heads Up: There are no cabins, so pack your gear if you’re staying overnight!
5. For Activists and Culture Lovers
DC Black Pride
If you’re looking for an event that seamlessly blends partying with purpose, head to Washington, D.C., for Black Pride. Over Memorial Day Weekend, this empowering gathering draws hundreds of thousands of attendees for a week filled with fundraisers, poetry slams, health screenings, and more.
- Why It Matters
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- DC Black Pride helped ignite the Gay Black Pride movement across the country.
- It’s a space to celebrate progress while recognizing the work still ahead.
- Springtime in D.C. is perfect for exploring the capital before the summer heat rolls in.
Bonus Perk: The city is alive with political and historical interest, so carve out time to visit iconic landmarks like the National Mall.
Don’t Stop at Memorial Day
These Memorial Day Weekend gay events are just the kickoff to an amazing LGBTQ+ party season. Whether you’re into leather competitions, beach bashes, or community-driven celebrations, every event offers something unique. In addition to gay events over Memorial Day Weekend, be sure to check out these gay events happening all year long.
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